I would like to share this that I have found and it’s just as if I had written it myself, as is someone had gathered all my thoughts and put them together. I’ve been trying to take life this way and through experiences I’ve learned and have found answers and explanations and have made this my philosophy of life. Here it is:

I find myself living more & more in this type of mindset. People think that I gloss over peoples negative aspects too easily. I prefer to think of it as intentional oversight. If someone's going to be hurtful or stupid, I'd rather experience it at the time of impact, rather than live anticipating or, worse yet, cut the potential of that person out of my life in order to protect myself from something that may never in fact manifest itself.
People come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.
Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again. Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold you head up because you have every right to Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create you own life and then go out and live it.
"If you take your eyes off your goals, all you see is obstacles."
~Author Unknown~

Taken from Adam’s windows live blog. Thanks. I still can't believe you think exactly THE SAME way I do. Life never stops surprising. Just another coincidence to add to the long list we already have. (Which you probably don't remember, LOL, But I do;))